Pregnancy & Postpartum Therapy
Motherhood Changes Everything and You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
Pregnancy and life after a baby can bring moments of joy and unexpected struggle. Anxiety, depression, or OCD during pregnancy or postpartum are common, and experiences like birth trauma, changes in your relationships, and transition in your sense of self can feel isolating.
We provide pregnancy and postpartum therapy in person in Bozeman and via video across Montana for women who want specialized, grounded support during this season. Many women come to us looking for a therapist who is skilled with maternal mental health and how motherhood impacts identity, relationships, and the nervous system.
Pregnancy and Postpartum Mental Health
Pregnancy, postpartum, and the transition into motherhood can affect mood, identity, relationships, and functioning in big ways.
These are some of the most common challenges for moms in Bozeman and throughout Montana:
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Pregnancy doesn’t always feel peaceful or exciting. You may find yourself consumed with worry about the baby’s health, your body, and childbirth. You might worry about being prepared or quietly grieving that you don’t feel as excited as you “should.” You may also feel sadness, irritability, numbness, disconnection, guilt, and confusion.
These experiences are common, treatable, and worthy of support.
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After a baby arrives, the pressure to feel grateful and joyful can make postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety feel especially isolating. You may notice persistent worry, tearfulness, irritability, difficulty sleeping even when the baby sleeps, or a heavy sense of overwhelm that doesn’t lift.
For many women, symptoms intensify when feeding does not go the way they hoped or when hormones shift after birth and weaning. Postpartum depression and anxiety therapy can help you understand what is happening, reduce overwhelm, and feel more steady again.
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Postpartum OCD can feel frightening and confusing, especially for loving, attentive mothers. You may experience intrusive thoughts or images about harm coming to your baby, followed by intense fear, repetitive behaviors, mental rituals, or avoidance.
These thoughts are ego-dystonic, meaning they go against who you are. They are far more common than most women realize. With specialized treatment like ERP and I-CBT, postpartum OCD is highly treatable. Symptoms often ease as hormonal fluctuations settle and effective tools are put in place.
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If your birth experience felt frightening, chaotic, painful, or dismissive, it can linger long after your body has healed. You may replay parts of the experience, avoid medical settings, or feel grief for the birth you hoped for.
Even when other people say the baby is healthy, your nervous system may still feel unsettled. Birth trauma therapy can help you process what happened and begin to feel safer in your body again.
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Motherhood is not just a role change. It is a developmental transition often called matrescence, the psychological, hormonal, and relational shift into becoming a mother. This change can feel disorienting. You may grieve parts of who you were, question your competence, or struggle to reconcile your professional, relational, and maternal identities.
Loving your child deeply and missing your former independence can exist at the same time. Therapy creates space to honor this transition and help you feel more integrated, rather than lost inside competing demands and expectations.
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A baby changes the dynamic between partners in ways few people fully prepare for. The mental load can feel uneven, communication may become tense, and intimacy often shifts as exhaustion and responsibility grow.
At the same time, relationships with parents and in-laws may feel more complicated as you navigate boundaries, differing parenting opinions, or feeling judged instead of supported. Addressing these shifts early helps protect connection and prevent resentment from taking root.
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For women entering motherhood later, or parenting while approaching perimenopause, the layers can feel especially complex. Hormonal changes, career demands, aging parents, shifting energy levels, and body changes can all collide at once.
You may feel out of sync with younger moms or wonder why this stage feels heavier than expected. These transitions deserve nuanced, developmentally informed support that considers the whole person.
How Pregnancy and Postpartum Therapy Can Help
Pregnancy and postpartum therapy can support you in practical, meaningful ways.
Stabilize Mood & Reduce Anxiety:
Decrease symptoms of pregnancy and postpartum anxiety, depression, and OCD by strengthening coping tools, regulating the nervous system, and reducing intrusive thoughts and emotional overwhelm.
Heal Birth & Nervous System Trauma:
Process birth trauma and stored stress responses so your body no longer feels stuck in fight, flight, or freeze. Feel restored to a greater sense of safety, steadiness, and resilience .
Rebuild Identity in Motherhood:
Support integration of your evolving identity as a mother, partner, and individual — reducing shame, internal conflict, and the sense of “losing yourself” during major life transitions.
Strengthen Relationships & Boundaries:
Improve communication and reduce resentment in your co-parenting. Navigate changes and boundaries in family dynamics and with in-laws with clarity and confidence.
Build Sustainable, Whole-Person Wellbeing:
Increase independent use of skills, support hormonal and life-stage transitions (including weaning and perimenopause), and cultivate a balanced lifestyle that reflects your values, energy, and long-term goals.
How We Treat Perinatal & Postpartum Mental Health
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Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Experiencing is a body-based form of somatic therapy that focuses on the body’s sensations and the way stress, birth experiences, and hormonal shifts are held in the nervous system. The perinatal period can intensify reactivity, especially in the wake of birth trauma, anxiety, lack of sleep, and identity grief.
Through gentle, collaborative techniques, we help you process stress responses, regulate your nervous system, and restore a sense of steadiness and resilience.
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
CBT recognizes that pregnancy and postpartum can bring a flood thoughts: the belief that you are failing, the fear that something will go wrong, the assumption that other mothers have it all figured out, or the inner critic.
Rather than being swept away by these thoughts, CBT helps you identify, examine, and gently challenge them. This approach can reduce anxiety, lift depressive symptoms, and build a steadier, more realistic relationship with your own mind.
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Trauma-Informed Counseling
Trauma-informed counseling acknowledges the widespread impact of trauma and prioritizes safety, trust, and respect in the healing process. A trauma-informed therapist will not push you to talk about painful experiences before you are ready. Instead, therapy moves at a pace that supports safety, dignity, and real healing.
Our therapists may also use attachment-based therapy to help you rebuild a sense of security in your relationships, especially when pregnancy, postpartum experiences, or earlier trauma have disrupted trust and connection.
Our Bozeman Perinatal Therapists
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Ellie Jorgensen, LCPC
I work with adults and children to navigate life’s twists and turns. I specialize in synergetic play therapy, CBT, and ERP, focusing on challenges like childhood behavioral concerns, attachment, postpartum depression, trauma, anxiety, and OCD.
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Sarah Webb, LCSW
I work with burnout, anxiety, rage, postpartum, birth trauma, attachment, and healthy coping in women. With expert training in Somatic, Mindfulness, and Attachment, I get to the core quickly so therapy has big impact.
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Lauren Boland, LCSW
In our work together, I’ll call into action the knowledge and strategies from somatic, mindfulness, attachment, and developmental theories for your work in anxiety, transitions, neurodivergence, and trauma.
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Tori Kenyon McKay, LCSW
I have a naturally playful and professional approach. My clinical past has allowed me to develop confidence and skills working with all genders ages 16 to 35. I feel at my most skilled when I’m working with life transitions, trauma, anxiety, and depression.
Our therapists are “Neurodiverse Informed”, which is to say that we all have training and skills to work with a range of folks on the neurodiverse spectrum from ADD/ADHD, gifted, and high functioning autism. We fully celebrate the Neuro-Spicey and the Bright and Quirky!
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FAQs About Pregnancy & Postpartum Therapy
Do I need a postpartum diagnosis to start therapy?
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No. You do not need a formal diagnosis to reach out. Many women start therapy because something feels off, heavier than expected, or harder to manage alone.
Can I start therapy even if I’m still pregnant?
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Yes. Therapy during pregnancy can help with anxiety, depression, fear of childbirth, relationship stress, past trauma being reactivated, and the emotional transition into motherhood.
How do I know if I need postpartum depression therapy?
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You don’t need to wait until things feel severe. Therapy can help when anxiety, sadness, intrusive thoughts, rage, disconnection, or overwhelm are making daily life harder, even if you are not sure whether it “counts” as postpartum depression or anxiety.
Ready for Perinatal Therapy?
If you are looking for pregnancy or postpartum therapy, birth trauma recovery, or support for parenting, our team is here to support you.